Some children find haircuts intolerable which is often nothing more than reaction to a stranger with shiny scissors coming close to their head, after all as adults we teach children to be mindful of strangers and that scissors cut. For some children the trip to the Hairdressing salon is what's frightening. Entering a strange odd smelling environment, told not to touch anything, being watched by other staff and clients, climbing into a large chair, getting wrapped up in a funny cape, told to sit still and having their hair sprayed wet can be very unnerving. By following some easy steps you can make the trip to the hairdresser a more pleasurable experience.
* You would be right in thinking that restraining your child makes things worse, you can't teach a child not to be afraid by frightening them more. * Choose a family friendly salon, ask other parents where they go, it may be comforting to your child knowing their friends go to the same Hairdresser. * Don't call it a haircut, to some children the word cut means pain, refer to it as a trim. * Having a friend or sibling nearby will help put the child at ease or act as a distraction. * Make an appointment at a happy time, if your child is tired or hungry, topped with a fear of haircut makes for a terrible experience. * Drop into the Salon to simply say hello, this allows the child to get familiar with staff and the environment without fear.
Find a good experienced hairdresser that will be quick and confident, we often find it a little bit more fun for the child to put one of their favourite shows on our ipad this keeps them entertained and makes the visit something to look forward to.